IMO the problem wasn't in Westminster, it was in Windsor. The German-descended Mad King George III trying to prove his Supreme Englishness, and to hell with "that horrid little electorate" [1] and "ungrateful Colonials".
1] Hanover
2] Good point
3] Then George III would be George IV. He'd be a very different man. His preference for North wasn't because he made a better card-playing partner, it was because they saw eye to eye, to the point where he refused to accept North's resignation long after any responsible monarch would have done so.
OTOH, if George's madness had struck harder and at a younger age, leaving the country with a regency for the young Prince of Wales, that opens up all kinds of possibilities.
American representation in the House of Commons was never in the cards. Writings and quoted speeches of the time show quite clearly that educated men could well see how that would end: A fully settled British North America politically and culturally overwhelming Mother England.
Despite claims of "benign neglect" there had always been major control over the Colonies, especially with the strangulating effects of the mercantilist system. Imagine a region as vast as the colonies without a single legal operating forge! And this was a principle on which Pitt the Elder was ferociously IN FAVOR of! He himself swore he would never see one forge in America
I strongly suggest you use another term. That term conjures images of the Trail of Tears, Sand Creek, Wounded Knee, and countless others.
Not without Change & Reform (two incredibly ugly words in a government with a Civil Service already some four hundred years old) coming out of London immediately after the end of the 7YW. Maybe if the war hadn't ended so spectacularly for the British, thereby NOT reinforcing the entrenched ruling classes' sense of power?
Not at all, though the British Army's leadership in the ARW was pretty lamentable in terms of grand strategy. And they had a horrible leadership back home to boot. Maybe if the capable Earl of Sandwich had had an interest in the army rather than the navy in his life?
The argument is often about who would want to (if anyone), who would back the United States (if anyone). I would think that had NO ONE, not even private individuals ($$$), come to the aid of the Colonies in the ARW, the British would have completely ground down America eventually. But short of individual states surrendering, it might well have taken until the chronological time of Yorktown to overrun every part of the country. Which, BTW, was General Sir Henry Clinton's belief in being the only way to conquer the country.
So, if Louis XVI been a strong super-reactionary in the sense of never doing anything to support a foreign revolt, never mind a rebellion or revolution within the British Empire, [4] Britain conquering the US in this scenario is quite doable.
4] Would be most un-French of him, that
Meh, not really. Too much would depend on the outcome of the American Civil War, which though likely a Union victory there's no absolute guarantee that it won't turn into a corrupt super-capitalist dystopia. That pathway leads to Mexico, Brazil, and Argentina.
OK, you've made a lot of good points,
but now you're just being silly. Ha-ha.
5] It WAS a very dirty war,
but except for coastal Southern California, the South-Southeastern third of Texas, and a few missions in present day New Mexico and Arizona, that land had only Native-Americans, who were bound to be screwed either way.
6] At the time of my education, it was never made clear to me that closing the port of Boston meant putting the city under siege! Because for all practical purposes the city is an island, with only a narrow unroaded spit of land connecting Boston to the mainland. It did NOT have the geography of London.
If only it weren't for the King's Friends and their master
I would also add ending mercantilism, of which the Colonies had completely outgrown. Unfortunately British merchants, and their servants in Parliament, certainly hadn't. Hence, this reform would never get passed, and would wreck the rest.
Revolutionary fear may have existed post-1763, but it was mostly ephemeral until actions in London had begun to unite the Colonies as they had never been before. The American Revolution was more one of separation than politics, as people kept expecting at the time for George Washington to go Oliver Cromwell, thereby negating the promises of the Declaration of Independence and the Articles of Confederation. The "American experiment" was seen as doomed to fail.
It was indeed 1789 when true fears of revolution began, but I would posit IMO that such "revolutionary" talk died when Napoleon crowned himself Emperor in 1803.
7] Meh, there are no absolutes.
8] Good point
Yet you simply must admit that Great Men have arrived in history at propitious times in history. Look at the performance of armies under poor commanders that are replaced by great ones, and vice-versa. Times in history where great leaders fail to appear, and where they do appear.
Shame
But I prefer an open dialogue myself, rather than groupthink.
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