Except that fighter-bombers rarely hit their targets; US after action studies in France indicated that something like 1-2% of fighter-bomber kill claims could be substantiated. Even Stuka kills have been called into question, including Rudel's claims of 500+ Soviet AFVs and it was much slower and accurate.
You are quoting studies that focused on
tanks not just hit, but made non-operational, by fighter bombers.
The reason being that tanks are armored.
If we look, instead, at the hit rate of fighter-bombers on
non-armored ground vehicles such as trucks and trains, you'd see that fighter-bombers were rather effective against slow-moving targets.
As to the fighters being too fast, that's not an absolute problem. It was a problem because fighter pilots
did not want to slow down too much, not because they
couldn't. That applies to the example of Me 262s against B-17s. The fact was that the B-17s were not alone; they were accompanied by P-51s. Slowing down to hit a slow bomber would make a German fighter slow enough to become an easy target, in turn, especially with the poor agility of a Me 262. That was the real problem.
So this boils down to the obvious: helicopters are a success where the air force fielding them also has fighter superiority to effectively escort them - just like it worked, for instance, for the Stukas.
Wherever the air force fielding the helicopters does not enjoy air superiority, helicopters are dead meat.
Curiously enough, if the Germans, specifically, field a lot of helicopters early on, the British can use a dedicated fighter to hunt them down: the Boulton-Paul Defiant (of course escorted by serious, faster fighters), which in real history was quickly phased out. Ordinary fighters will, sooner or later, have a collision with their target if they keep firing at it and it is not moving away, because their line of fire is exactly the same as their course. That is not a problem for the Defiant given its strange weapon mount.
That this is a significant solution for engaging slow-moving targets at ease is not demonstrated, historically, by the Defiant - but it is demonstrated by the German fighter force, with the variants installing the schräge Musik weapon mount.