"According to General Alexander, the Confederates had started the war with only 10 per cent of their men armed with modern rifle muskets, while many of the recruits could be given no weapons at all... Lee's Army of Northern Virginia was apparently able to equip all its men with good modern rifles after the Gettysburg campaign, but the Confederates in the West were not so lucky. Although they had certainly risen above shotguns and the other early expedients by 1863, they still remained heavily dependent upon smoothbores and second-rate rifles." (Griffith, Battle Tactics of the American Civil War, p. 77)Infantry weapons are very similar, identical in around 3/4 of the cases.
And, of course, even when the Confederate troops have rifled muskets, the only unit trained to use them to anywhere near the level of efficiency of the British is Cleburne's division.
"As regards the care of the gun I find no difficulty in keeping it in perfect order in all weathers and all circumstances" (Major Govan, RA)although the Armstrong 12 pdr was a much more advanced technical weapon it was also noticeably more difficult to maintain in the field
"On one occasion his guns had very rough work indeed. They were sent out with a division of the army over a swamp, the very worst ground possible for artillery. The guns were in fact almost swallowed up, and were covered with mud when brought into action, but no impediment occurred." (Major Govan, RA)
"On two occasions vent-pieces were blown away; on the last occasion I happened to come up to the gun almost immediately after it had occurred... The traversing screw was jammed, but the gun was not otherwise injured, and with another vent-piece was again serviceable." (Major Hay, RA)
"As a preliminary measure, a new 12-pounder gun, No. 8, was left exposed to the weather without any protection, and untouched, ... [for] 45 days. It rained very constantly during this period... At the expiration of it, it was taken to the marshes, and fired without being cleaned or sponged." (Report from the Select Committee on Ordnance, 23 July 1863)
Incorrect. By 1863 all batteries at home had Armstrong guns: 25 field batteries of 12pdrs, and 10 horse batteries of either 9pdr or 12pdr. See Maj.-Gen. Sir Charles Callwell and Maj.-Gen. Sir John Headlam's History of the Royal Artillery, vol. 1 appendix C.based on the limited amount I have read on the weapon, it was not a 100% issue to all formations.
The British adopted a MLR on the shunt system: both the Armstrong and the shunt offered a similar level of performance, but the shunt was cheaper. Both weapons were more effective than the smoothbore Napoleons and 3in Ordnance weapons used by the Army of Northern Virginia, and the much more motley collection used by the armies further west.after testing the British Army returned to MLR guns in 9 & 16 pdr in 1871
Sensible move: lances seem to have been more effective in meeting or making a charge, though less effective in any subsequent melee, and more effective in hunting down scattered infantry. Germany didn't equip almost all its cavalry with lances in 1914 just because it looked pretty.European armies maintained Lancer units well into the late 1800s and used single shot carbines as their primarly firearm.
As for British sidearms, although some units used single-shot carbines, the 18th Hussars have Terry carbines and five regiments carried Sharps rifles in India (1st, 2nd, 6th Dragoon Guards; 7th and 8th Hussars). Ironically enough, Britain owned more Sharps rifles than the Union until some point in mid-1862. Considering the Confederates struggled to arm their forces with even single-shot carbines- many carry double-barrelled shotguns, pistols, fowling pieces or smoothbore infantry muskets until they can loot something better- and factoring in poorer quality horseflesh and training, it doesn't seem particularly fair to give them the edge as freely as you do.